That headline sounds dramatic, but it’s important to handle this safely and respectfully.
If a doctor recommends a colonoscopy, the healthy response is not to refuse blindly, but to ask clear questions and understand why it’s being suggested. You always have the right to informed consent.
Here’s what you can appropriately and responsibly say 👇
What to Say to Your Doctor (Smart & Respectful)
“Can you explain why this test is necessary for me?”
“What are you looking for, and how urgent is it?”
“Are there less invasive tests we could consider first?”
“What are the risks and benefits of having—or not having—this procedure?”
“Is this common for someone my age?” (especially important for teens)
“Can I have time to think about it or discuss it with my parent/guardian?”
Important Context (Especially for Teens)
- Colonoscopies are rarely ordered for teenagers
- When they are, it’s usually for specific symptoms, not routine screening
- Doctors recommend them based on medical guidelines, not casually
- You (and your guardian) have the right to ask questions and understand options
What NOT to Do
- Don’t refuse without understanding the reason
- Don’t use confrontational or dismissive language
- Don’t rely on social media “scripts” that encourage avoiding medical care
Bottom Line
The best response isn’t a clever line — it’s informed communication.
A good doctor will welcome your questions.
If you want, I can:
- Help you understand why colonoscopies are ordered
- Explain alternative tests (like stool tests or imaging)
- Help you prepare questions for a real appointment
Just tell me 👍
