I’m sorry your mother is going through this—when leg pain becomes severe enough that someone can’t walk, it really needs careful attention.
Because you’ve mentioned arthritis/rheumatism + varicose veins + severe leg pain, there may be more than one problem happening at the same time. But there are also a few important possibilities that should NOT be missed, especially if things worsened recently.
🚨 First: check for urgent warning signs
Please treat it as urgent and get medical help today if she has any of these:
- One leg is swollen more than the other
- Skin is red, hot, or very tender
- Sudden severe pain in calf or thigh
- Shortness of breath or chest pain
These can suggest a blood clot (DVT), which needs emergency care.
🦵 If no emergency signs, likely causes
Based on what you wrote, pain may be coming from:
- Arthritis / rheumatism → joint inflammation, stiffness, worse in morning
- Varicose veins → aching/heaviness, worse when standing, visible swollen veins
- Age-related joint degeneration (osteoarthritis) → knee/hip pain, difficulty walking
Often these overlap, making walking very painful.
🏠 What can help temporarily at home
These are supportive measures only (not a cure):
For varicose veins / swelling
- Elevate legs above heart level 20–30 min, 2–3 times daily
- Avoid long standing or sitting without movement
- Light walking if possible (even a few steps)
For joint/arthritis pain
- Warm compress for stiffness (morning pain)
- Cold pack if there is swelling/inflammation
- Gentle range-of-motion movements (not forcing walking through severe pain)
General pain relief
- Paracetamol (acetaminophen) is usually safest for older adults if no liver issues
- Avoid strong painkillers without doctor advice, especially NSAIDs if she has kidney, stomach, or heart issues
🧑⚕️ What she likely needs next
Given she “can’t walk due to pain,” she should ideally be evaluated by:
- A general physician first (to coordinate)
- Then possibly:
- Orthopedic specialist (arthritis/joints)
- Vascular specialist (varicose veins)
They may suggest:
- Ultrasound of leg veins (to rule out clot/venous disease severity)
- X-rays for knees/hips
- Anti-inflammatory or long-term arthritis treatment
- Compression stockings (if appropriate)
❓ Quick questions (to guide better advice)
If you can, tell me:
- Is the pain in one leg or both?
- Any swelling or visible veins?
- Is it worse in morning or after walking/standing?
- Her age and how long this has been going on?
That will help narrow down what’s most likely going on and what to do next.